Malaika Arora, who has navigated the complexities of marriage and divorce, recently shared some valuable advice for married women and those planning to tie the knot. In her interview with Curly Tales, she emphasized the significance of holding onto one’s individual identity even after marriage. For her, being independent post-marriage is not just important; it is essential.
One of Malaika’s strong points was to maintain financial independence by keeping finances separate from a partner’s. She stated, ‘Independent rakho baba (be independent). Jo tera hai voh tera hai, jo mera hai voh mera hai (what is yours is yours, and what is mine is mine).’ Building a life together does not mean merging everything into one; it’s crucial to retain your own financial identity.
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Malaika further elaborated that sharing experiences in a marriage is good, but women should not forget their own identity. As she highlighted, ‘As it is you’re taking on somebody else’s last name, right? So I think the least you can do is hang on to your own bank account.’ This perspective reflects her understanding of the struggles many face in maintaining individuality within a relationship.
Amidst her highly publicized personal life, including her marriage to Arbaaz Khan and her relationship with Arjun Kapoor, Malaika’s words resonate with many women navigating similar paths. Her experience serves as a reminder that while love and partnership are important, personal identity and independence should always remain a priority.